Yadda yadda… at the end of the day…..Fuggedaboudit…. we hear this every day. Just words, words which make the point though.
However, I want to remind us all to resist the temptation to Fuggadaboudit when confronted with challenges, issues and concerns. Denial and avoidance is only putting off the discomfort of facing it and these issues not disappear by themselves. In fact, experience will show that, when kept in the dark, they will proliferate like mushrooms. Delayed discomfort is ultimately increased pain. Look what Fuggedaboudit did for Sonny Corleone!
So what do we do?
First, capture the issue on paper. Just write it down so it doesnt get away. Why, because our psychological systems, those wonderful processes that are designed to protect us from overload, will sweep it under the rug of consciousness and it might get lost. WRITE IT DOWN.
Next? The next step is to keep it posted so that when you have the resources of time, money, know how.. whatever, you can FOLLOW the issue and, ultimately, FIX it.
Its been said that ‘the weakest ink is stronger than the best memory’. So when your awareness allows you to see an obstacle to your happiness, productivity, health or prosperity, be sure to write it down… for there is probably a huge leverage opportunity embedded within.
Whatever you do, dont Fuggedaboudit!
About the Author: David Corbin
As someone who grew up in the sixties and seventies and attended Woodstock, college protests, volunteered as Director of Community Counseling Center, med evac at concerts and festivals and the like, I still maintain a strong commitment to social change. My venue at this stage of my life is the business community and that’s where I am focusing my energies to making positive change.
My books, keynotes and trainings are all about systems that foster peace of mind and productivity through personal and professional growth and development. They offer models for identifying values and mission and give procedures and processes for bringing them to life- acting in congruence with them at all times.
